My First Cord Cutting Ceremony Experience

I’ve spent the last couple months on my own self healing…. purely guided by spirit. Now I think I’ve learned enough thru my own experience, trying to self heal, and thru research that I am ready to ceremoniously succeed with cord cutting. Dear Reader, keep in mind that I am doing this in real time as I write thru Source. So when I speak in the past and future, I am actually doing this in the NOW!

Also, for many it’s best to do this in privacy and somewhere you feel comfortable. I like to meditate in my backyard alone. This identification and release may bring up some uncomfortable feelings such as embarrassment. Plus that “embarrassing cord” may need to be cut as well. In privacy, you can smile to yourself and know, no one needs to know about this except for you. Until you see how it works and you want to share it with others!!!

1. Identify the cord and set your intention in detail. This takes time and inner work. Please make sure you have time to do this step properly. If you don’t, you won’t receive the highest benefits. This is the number one reason FOR A REASON, don’t skip and don’t do anything else until you have done this step – and you KNOW it to be the truth. Below I have a Mini How-To” to identify the cord. The cord I’ve chosen, tells me, “you are going to sound stupid.” But we need more detail than that. I think that my parents or my brothers (me being the baby of 3) made me feel as though I sounded dumb. I’m not sure if this cord was from my waking life as Kristin, or a cord from my soul’s previous lives. I need to know this before I can cut that cord most effectively. After meditating using the below steps, I concluded the cord I most desire to cut is also saying “You choose fear over success. You know you are ready to start writing that book, under the condition that you will listen to everything Source tells you to do. And if you don’t, you will have failed your life’s mission. Which goes against everything you’re doing for yourself in your waking life.” Once you have identified the cord that you will be cutting, we can set our intention with positive vibrational words.  My intention will be “I choose success over fear when it comes to this book. I believe that my book is changing the world.”  Make sure the intention is set in the NOW.  Avoid using phrases like “I’m going to…”  For example, my initial intention was “I choose success over fear when it comes to writing this book.  I believe that my book is going to change the world. I know that I am a successful writer with financial freedom. The nay sayers will feel so SILLY when they find out I was right.”  My initial intention vibrates on a lower frequency (hello Ego) that also doesn’t ever bring my intention to life – it’s stuck in the future always.
   • MINI HOW TO: Identifying the Cord
     1. Get comfortable and breath deep. Close your eyes and ask for guidance in identifying the cord you wish to cut in more detail.
     2. Imagine a rope. Zoom in on the section of that rope until you get to one single strand.
     3. Ask the cord, “what should I call you?”
     4. Keep at it. It could take some time, keep feeling into the emotions. Don’t let anxiety or embarrassing thoughts take over. It’s uncomfortable but you need to weather through it.
     5. Ensure you are paying attention to as much detail as possible.  Feel into it, and notice if you can come up with a particular memory or information that SUPPORTS the cord, even though we know this to be false – hence why we are cutting the cord.
     6. You will KNOW intuitively that you have all the details of the cord when you are ready to cut it. If you don’t KNOW, redo these steps at a later time.
2. Write or type out the WORST things that a person could say to you in regard to that shame. Your ego doesn’t want to sound dumb, but we often come up with the worst-case scenario in our imagination. So, speak your fear out. For me it was a person reading my finished book saying, “HOLY SHIT, this Kristin girl is fucking so dumb and so crazy. She should be so embarrassed for writing something so idiotic. There are a million people reading these words laughing at her.” MAKE SURE YOU WRITE IT DOWN! Keep writing until you have the following components: what it is that you are doing in your waking life, how it makes you feel, and most importantly, something that wouldn’t have happened without you following thru on your purpose.
3. Analyze and find the manifestation.  Pick apart what you wrote down and find those three components. So for me that was writing a book that is changing the world, feeling embarrassed by people’s opinions and, most importantly the manifestation I found, was that these words were a part of that poor selftalk: “There are a million people reading these words.” In order for that part of the manifestation to come true, that would mean millions of people would be reading and talking about my book. Which brings us to; which do you want more? Being so afraid to do something stoopid, or having that full manifestation come true?  I want the full manifestation to come true.
4. Visualize the cord and cut it.  Close your eyes, take a deep breath and state this intention either in your mind or out loud.  Envision a rope and zoom in on the rope until you come to a single cord. Give that cord a “Hello my name is:” nametag and write in the name of that cord. For me, my cord is wearing the nametag, “Hello my name is: Fear Over Success When It Comes To This Book.”  Now, imagine getting those fabric scissors, that kitchen knife, the neighbor’s chainsaw, or whatever you can see in detail and start cutting that cord. As you do this, imagine that cord speaking to you.  It’s saying the thing you wrote down, the worst thing.  I like to laugh out loud when I do this.  I’m killing that part within me that is build on fear.  I’m cutting it down.   It has no place within me anymore. Once you’ve cut that cord, you can envision that cord springing apart. You can feel the energy burst in your body at the same time and you can smile to yourself knowing that you cut that mother fucking cord. You are free of this limiting belief.
5. Move on to the next cord. Ask spirit kindly to show you the next cord you need to cut.  Now is the perfect time to identify it.